为何你还没有找到你的灵魂伴侣

李君婕

你在人生的旅程中苦苦找寻真爱已经有多久时间了？如果最终找到了那个特定的伴侣那该有多美好！你知道已经有人找到了他们的真爱，，为什么你还没有呢？这到底是残酷的命运安排还是仅仅是你自身限制和障碍的显化？好消息是，我们已经找出让你至今还孤身一人的真正原因。
这个解释可能会遭到质疑，但是我将会与你分享有力并有效的方法去克服所有阻碍你找到灵魂伴侣的障碍。


There are three main types of barriers to finding the love of your life:
1. You are strongly attracted to the wrong people.
2. You have emotional blocks to being with the right people, leading to self-sabotage.
3. You are not aligned with bringing your soulmate into your life.
One or more of these types of barriers may be the source of the problem. Often, it's all three of them.
这里有三种在你人生中阻碍你找到真爱的类型：
1 你总是被那些“错误”的人所吸引；
2 你与那些对的人之间总是存在感情障碍，最终导致自我破坏；
3你还没有把自己调整到吸引灵魂伴侣的频率上。
以上任意一种或多种阻碍就是你感情问题的根源所在。而通常，人们往往都具备以上全部的限制。


Being Attracted to the Wrong People
If you are attracted to the wrong people, then all of your time and energy will be wasted in
painful, dead-end relationships. This unhappy situation will obviously make it hard to find and
be with the right person. So, what causes you to be attracted to the wrong people?
As you grow up, you unconsciously form an image of your future partner based on the strongest traits of your parents, both good and bad. You will then be subconsciously attracted
to people with similar traits. This is not a problem for the good traits, but it can be a big
problem for the bad ones.
被错误的人深深吸引
如果你被错误的人深深吸引，那么你的时间和精力将会浪费在痛苦、没有出路的关系中。很明显，这样痛苦的状况使你很难找到正确的人，并和他在一起。那么，为什么你会被错误的人深深吸引呢？在你成长过程中，你会无意识地想象你未来伴侣的形象，这是基于你的双亲身上最突出的特质形成的，包括好的和坏的。你将潜意识地吸引有相似特质的人。吸引好的特质不是什么问题，但是如果是坏的特质，就是一个大问题。